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Emotional triggers

Gerald W. Deas | 1/22/2013, 2:04 p.m.
Halloween will make your child scream

If you are feeling "emotional" in a negative way, some synonyms might be: feeling abandoned, forsaken, destitute, depleted, drained, exhausted, empty-hearted.

"By starving emotions, we become humorless, rigid and stereotyped; by repressing them, we become literal, reformatory and holier than thou; encouraged, they perfume life; discouraged they poison it."--Joseph Collins, 1866-1950, American neurologist

"No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence."--George Elliot (Mary Ann Evans), 1819-1880, English novelist

Trigger --definition: Anything that sets off or initiates something else, such as violent movies, which have the potential to trigger juvenile delinquency; the small lever on the underside of a gun, which is pulled back by the finger to fire the gun.

I was taken by Winifred Gallagher's description of "soul murder" in her book, "Working on God," when she quoted Dr. James Washington, a professor of religion at both Union Theological Seminary and Columbia University: "When a person of a permanent underclass loses any apparent meaning or worth, results can be suicide, infanticide (killing babies), parricide (killing of parents) and even deicide (killing their God). Once a person has been spiritually eviscerated, he says 'without providence there is no hope. The primary business of religion is to take away the pain. If a church doesn't do that, shut the door. We get so weary as it pours in faster than we can shovel it. But, once in a while, grace suddenly descends like a spaceship; and we live for the next such moment.'" When Washington died, he was mourned throughout the city for 10 days at Union Seminary.

To sustain and maintain a sense of well-being, I must quote Matthew 10:28: "Don't be afraid of those who can kill only your bodies--but can't touch your soul!

Romans 12:9: "Don't just pretend that you love others, really love them. Hate what is wrong. Stand on the side of the good. Love each other with brotherly affection and take delight in honoring each other. Never be lazy in your work but serve the Lord enthusiastically. Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble and prayerful always. When God's children are in need, you be the one to help them out and get into the habit of inviting guests home for dinner or if they need lodging for the night."

In closing, I would like to share this hymn with you:

"In Times Like These" by Ruth K. Jones, 1902-1972

In times like these you need a savior

In times like these you need an anchor;

Be very sure your anchor holds and grips the solid rock

In times like these you need the Bible

In times like these O' be not idle

Be very sure be very sure

Your anchor holds and grips the solid rock

In times like these I have a savior

In times like these I have an anchor

I'm very sure my anchor holds

And grips the solid rock