For the past few years, around this time of year, I’ve reserved my column for highlighting evenings of entertainment for the givers and caretakers of life–moms. So to follow my lil’ annual practice, here we go.

On Saturday, May 11, one of the premiere romantics of the modern music era, Babyface, comes to the Theater at Madison Square Garden (Seventh Avenue between 31st and 33rd streets) along with Aaron and Damion Hall’s incarnation of Guy. Show begins at 8 p.m. and tickets range from $79-$149.

It’s the concert that has become synonymous with Mother’s Day for three years running: Musical legends the Whispers and Stephanie Mills take over the NYCB Theatre at Westbury (960 Brush Hollow Rd., Westbury, N.Y.). Prices are $40-$75, and the show begins at 8 p.m.

Now that that’s out of the way, let me share what I learned about the origin of Mother’s Day. I had no idea that the day was birthed in the spirit of activism. A woman by the name of Julia Ward Howe brought forth the first Mother’s Day Proclamation and Mother’s Day for Peace in 1870 to bemoan the impact of Civil War violence in the war-torn America communities.

Among the things Howe said in the proclamation was this: “We, women of one country, will be too tender of those of another country, to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs. From the bosom of the devastated earth a voice goes up with our own. It says: ‘Disarm, Disarm!’”

Today, as we face an unfathomable amount of violence targeted at youth, that message needs to be resurrected. And it has, as BET President Debra Lee and National Action Network founder the Rev. Al Sharpton have combined efforts to launch a new movement called Mothers on a Mission Against Urban Gun Violence, or M.O.M. This program will begin as month-long campaign during the month of May aimed at educating and empowering mothers and women to unite against urban gun violence. It will incorporate government officials, corporate leaders, celebrities and other concerned mothers.

In attendance at the launch event was a woman who has taken on the tenets of the movement and may have been its catalyst: Cleopatra Pendleton, the mother of Hadiya Pendleton, the Chicago native who lost her life at the tender age of 15, one week after she had performed at events for the second inauguration of President Obama. BET Networks and the National Action Network will leverage all of their platforms–including on-air programming, social media and grassroots community mobilization–to encourage women to use the remainder of the month to speak out against the plague of urban gun violence and implement the following five-point plan:

  • Find a local anti-violence program to which you will donate time and money.
  • Work with other mothers to petition local churches and community centers to stay open to provide anti-violence programming and other options for young people, especially in the summer.
  • Contact local and federal elected officials to make your voice heard on gun violence.
  • Get involved on a local level with organizations like NAN’s Occupy the Corners program.
  • Commit to spending time mentoring youth in your area.

To mothers who read this, while Sunday is your day to receive gifts and be pampered, soon thereafter, the needs and wants of everyone around you takes precedence. Atop of the list right now is the need for Summer Jam tickets.

The biggest show of the year for the past two decades just announced the full lineup for the June 2 spectacle: Wu-Tang Clan, Miguel, Kendrick Lamar, Chris Brown, Wale, Fabolous, 2 Chainz, French Montana, A$AP Rocky, Joe Budden and what surely will be huge surprises.

So here’s what we’re going to do; to encourage creative expression in middle and high school students, get your kids to write an essay on this topic: While hip-hop has morphed into a multibillion-dollar industry, at its core, the genre is still grounded in its roots, and we all have a stake in the direction the culture and music heads. Write the best essay–minimum 750 words–on the topic “Hip-Hop, Responsibility and Me,” and a pair of tickets to Summer Jam are yours. Essays can be emailed to with “Hip-Hop, Responsibility and Me” in the subject line. The contest will run until Friday, May 24. Good luck.

Over and out. Holla next week. Till then, enjoy the nightlife.